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I got the password wrong to many times and it says connect to iTunes and I don’t want to restart my phone because there some information that I need on it and I don’t know if I have a back up.

There’s an incredibly slim chance you could take it into an Apple Store and they might be able to help but otherwise there really isn’t anything you can do except reset the phone using iTunes and restore it to a previous backup or to factory settings if there aren’t any backups.

i dont believe you need to restart your iphone when you connect to itunes